There are hundreds of articles on Google about sisterhood. I do not know whether I will be able to add something new to it. I just want to share my experience about this beautiful bond.

First, let me tell you what the definition of sisterhood is for me. Sisterhood is the bond that gave me the backbone to go through some of the hardest times of my life. It has always made me happy, validated and celebrated me for who I am. While growing up, I had a lot of issues with my body, my confidence and whatnot. As I stepped into adulthood, I came across some of the most amazing women that totally changed my perspective towards life. These strong, independent and beautiful women came into my life as my friends and I do not know when they became my sisters. The positive affirmation that I got from my girlfriends helped me to believe in myself again.

I believe, whoever has come up with the saying “two women cannot be best friends” was just absolutely terrified with the power of sisterhood. So they portrayed it as a sign of weakness. But, it is not. It is the single most powerful bond I have in my life. And, if you ask why? Let me give you a sneak peek of sisterhood.

Emotional Connect: The amount of emotional support I receive from them is beyond words. Whenever I need a shoulder to cry on or laugh my heart out, they are there. On my bad days or good days, they are always all ears to hear my feelings and emotions.

Validation: We all need to be validated at some point in our life. And, I have always felt most validated with my girlfriends. Whether it is the validation of my certain action or emotion or just being myself, I have got it from them. The positive affirmation that they have given to my feelings, opinions and emotions are unimaginable.

Empowerment: Women empowering women unleashes the greatest strength in us. It makes us strong, independent and lets us stand out in this patriarchal society. It has always given me the power to win my battles and left me feeling empowered from within.

Vulnerability: While growing up, society has always told me that being vulnerable is a sign of weakness. But do you know what is the best part? Sisterhood taught me that it is okay to be vulnerable. When I showed them my vulnerable side, never for once, I have faced any judgements. Instead, I got empathy in return.

A judgement-free zone: They know my fear, my weirdness, my mood swings and still never scrutinise me for who I am. They have accepted me with all my flaws and imperfections. It is like a piece of heaven on earth. Can you believe it if we all start treating people like this? Wouldn’t the world be such a happier place to live in!

The best therapist: The thousands of free therapy sessions I have got from them is just uncountable. They are always just a phone call away to hear me rant and give me the best possible advice. Who said therapy is costly when you are surrounded by amazing sisters!

No shaming zone: There is no place for shaming in sisterhood. I have been body-shamed by countless people, including my family. But my girlfriends have made me feel beautiful at my lowest. They taught me that I am much more than my body. They love me for who I am and they never tried to change me a bit.

Just imagine if we push this concept of sisterhood and stop tearing down women, the journey of life will become so beautiful. The power of women being together is immeasurable.

I want to dedicate this article to all my amazing girlfriends. I cannot express my love for you girls. Thank you for being there for me always and forever